Thursday, August 30, 2007

"Sex should be enjoyed!"

A Kenyan colleague of mine said this to a group of mamas in Sagalla. Women should enjoy sex too! The looks of confusion, delight, discovery, guilt and relief on their faces were just priceless. It was like watching the movie Chocolate, a group discovering pleasure. Their eyes just lit up. Its as if they had been waiting for someone to tell them it was ok for them to enjoy it - in fact it was their right to enjoy it – some had been waiting to be told how to enjoy it. There was an excited quiet commotion and slowly questions started coming out like, ‘what if he goes flat, what do I do?’ Ah! Another great moment.

2 comments:

Dan said...

Rach:

Sounds like you should organize some passion parties where the women can gather together, purchase "marital aids"(find a better way to translate that given the situation and part of your work), and gossip.. just like in old school!

Rachel Santos said...

thats really funny dan, because the idea did kinda pop into my head! haha, mostly jokingly, but wouldnt it be great!?!hope you are well!